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Dealing with defiance: 9 ways to treat

Dealing with defiance: 9 ways to manage by ParentSurvival911 Wednesday, January 25, 2006 10: 00 AM PST |  Permalink |  Cosmos

  Tony Schutta, coach parents wrote a good article to unmanageable children.  I've found the article on the internet and would like to share with you.  It is simple, easy to understand and numbered, making it easier to read.Here are the three first idées.Vous can go to the link to find other 6 ideas.

1 Use positive communication.Try the formulation of your order parents to positively negative relative. For example, if your child says "and then I watch TV now?" instead of simply saying "non.Vous can't."one could say "You can watch TV after dinner". Or "I can tape the show so that you can watch after dinner.

(2) The child to give two choix.Comme parent, you can choose two options that are also acceptable to you and to offer them to your child.The child is less likely to make opposition if they feel that they have a mastery of the situation.For example, you could say, "do you want to your chore before school or after school today."

3 Reflects the feeling child .Parfois showing compassion to children in reflecting on what they feel may prove utile.On might say, "" now you're angry because you cannot complete construction of the Tower of Lego.Il is difficult to leave a project until you are finished, is it not? ""

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