Dealing with Disrespectful behavior

When your child treats you disrespectfully, how does that make you feel?  Do you want it to continue?  if not, think about making some changes iin how you relate to your child.

First of all, you are the parent and should be the one in  control, not the child.  If your child upsets you, you've given control over to your child.  In order to get it back, place the units of concern on your child by using natural consequences.

For every disrespectful statement coming out of your child's moputh, tell him or her she's just let you know he or she wants to do an extra chore to help you around the house.  Then, give a choice between 2 chores and then give a choice between two times they can do it.  The next time your child wants you to do something for him or her, smile and say, "I would be happy to do that as soon as you......."  This could be

1.  Treat me with respect

2.  Do your chores on time

3.  Whatever else you want your child to do.

Do NOT engage in a conversation or discussion about this; other wise you've just been sucked into the unconscious game I shared with you on 8-09-05.

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Dealing with disrespectful behaviour

When your child processes disrespectful, how that you feel?  Do you want it conti EU?  If not, consider m makes some changes iin how you relate to your child.

  First of all, you are the parent and must be in control, not the child.If your child annoys you, you have given your enfant.afin regain control, place concern units on your child's natural consequences. 

For each disrespectful statement outgoing moputh your child tell him or her it was just that you know that he or she wants to make an extra chore for you help in the House.Then, give the choice between 2 tasks and provides a choice between two times, then they can used the next time your child wants to do you something for him or her, smile and say: "I would be pleased to do so as soon as you..."."This could be

1 Treat me with respect

2 Make your tasks in time

3 Any other you want your child to make.

Do engage in a conversation or discussion on it; other wise, as you have just sucked into the unconscious game, I shared with you on 8-09-05.

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Disrespectful. Behavior: How not to deal with it

Disrespectful. Behavior: How not to deal with it

What to do when your child becomes disrespectful?

All the actions listed below ensures that your child is learning a result set:

1 Say, "It will teach you a lesson."

2 Become angry and free reprimand;(d).

3 Be morality or threatening.

4 Talk about too.

Child usually hear you the first place to get angry, fois.Au ask your child how he or she wants to reimburse you for the irrespectueux.Après behavior, is very draining to listen to the child négatifs.Votre words must be nice to get energy back was asséché.En soomething know more about this iin the next blog entry.

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Disrespectful. Behavior: How NOT to Deal with It

Disrespectful. Behavior: How NOT to Deal with It

What do you do when your child becomes disrespectful?

All of the actions listed below will guarantee your child not learning the value of a consequence:

1.  Say, "This will teach you a lesson."

2.  Become angry and scold the chil;d.

3.  Moralize or threaten.

4.  Talk too much.

Children usually hear you the first time.  Instead of getting angry, ask your child how he or she wants to pay you back for the disrespectful behavior.  After all, it's very draining to listen to the negative words.  Your child needs to do soomething nice for you to put the energy back that was drained.  More about this iin the next blog entry.

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