Dealing with Disrespectful behavior

When your child treats you disrespectfully, how does that make you feel?  Do you want it to continue?  if not, think about making some changes iin how you relate to your child.

First of all, you are the parent and should be the one in  control, not the child.  If your child upsets you, you've given control over to your child.  In order to get it back, place the units of concern on your child by using natural consequences.

For every disrespectful statement coming out of your child's moputh, tell him or her she's just let you know he or she wants to do an extra chore to help you around the house.  Then, give a choice between 2 chores and then give a choice between two times they can do it.  The next time your child wants you to do something for him or her, smile and say, "I would be happy to do that as soon as you......."  This could be

1.  Treat me with respect

2.  Do your chores on time

3.  Whatever else you want your child to do.

Do NOT engage in a conversation or discussion about this; other wise you've just been sucked into the unconscious game I shared with you on 8-09-05.

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Disrespectful. Behavior: How not to deal with it

Disrespectful. Behavior: How not to deal with it

What to do when your child becomes disrespectful?

All the actions listed below ensures that your child is learning a result set:

1 Say, "It will teach you a lesson."

2 Become angry and free reprimand;(d).

3 Be morality or threatening.

4 Talk about too.

Child usually hear you the first place to get angry, fois.Au ask your child how he or she wants to reimburse you for the irrespectueux.Après behavior, is very draining to listen to the child négatifs.Votre words must be nice to get energy back was asséché.En soomething know more about this iin the next blog entry.

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Modify you your parenting technique & behavior is worse

A myth common parents often occurs because they tried a new response to negative behavior by their children.  They think if behaviors are worse, the new technique of parents failed.  In fact, exactly the opposite is true.

If you change your technique parents respond differently to negative behaviors of your child and your child's behaviour immediately gets worse, technique works probably!Don't stop keep doing what you do and behaviours will eventually earned (if you are victim of coherent).

The behaviour of children become worse because they take you seriously when you something différent.En in addition, you have changed the rules of the game without letting know and that they are taken to the dépourvu.Ils will make everything to make you fall, so return you to the old way of doing things - which is not to change their behaviour.

When your child becomes immediately worse, pat yourself on the back and smile - you to something better.

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You Change Your Parenting Technique & the Behavior Gets Worse

A common myth parents often have happens because they tried a new reaction to a negative behavior by their children.  They think if the behaviors become worse, the new parenting technique failed.  Actually, the exact opposite is true.

If you change your parenting technique to react differently to your child's negative behaviors and your child's behavior immediately gets worse, the technique is probably working!  Don't stop, keep doing what you're doing and the behaviors will eventually subside (if you're being consistent).

Children's behaviors become worse because they don't take you seriously when you do something different.  Also, you've changed the rules of the game without letting them know and they're caught off guard.  They will do anything to break you down so you go back to the old way of doing things--which doesn't get them to change their behaviors.

When your child immediately becomes worse, pat yourself on the back and smile--you're moving toward something better.

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Disrespectful. Behavior: How NOT to Deal with It

Disrespectful. Behavior: How NOT to Deal with It

What do you do when your child becomes disrespectful?

All of the actions listed below will guarantee your child not learning the value of a consequence:

1.  Say, "This will teach you a lesson."

2.  Become angry and scold the chil;d.

3.  Moralize or threaten.

4.  Talk too much.

Children usually hear you the first time.  Instead of getting angry, ask your child how he or she wants to pay you back for the disrespectful behavior.  After all, it's very draining to listen to the negative words.  Your child needs to do soomething nice for you to put the energy back that was drained.  More about this iin the next blog entry.

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