When Your Child Says, "It's not fair!"

You've just asked or told your child to do something he doesn't want to do.  he looks at you with angry eyes and says, "Its not fair!"  Or your daughter wants to do something and you won't let her do it.  She gets huffy and says in a loud voice, "That's not fair!"

How do you respond?  CALMLY.

You do NOT want to get into an argument or discussion defending your position to your child.  After all, you ARE the parent; you have a right to be in charge; especially when you're dealing with young children and those acting like young children.  Children who say this to their parenbts are merely working at manipulating the situation so they get their way.

I suggest looking at your child calmly and quietly saying noithing else except, "I know."  If your child continues to explain why this is upsetting, you continue saying, "I know."  If your child says something that poushes your buttons, you can smile and say, "Honey, I loe you too much to argue."  Then you should walk away.

This is a great Parenting with Love & Logic technique.  If your voice is calm and quiet, your child can't argue as much--there's no wood being added to the fire of arguments to keep things burning.  Your child will eventually calm down and give up when things don't go his or her way.

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When your child said, "this is not fair!"

You simply asked or told your child to do something that he does not want to do.  He looks at you with eyes in anger and said, "" its not fair!""  Or your daughter wants to do something and that you do laissez-faire it.  She gets huffy and said aloud, "this is not fair!"

How respond you? CALMLY.

  You do not want to get into an argument or discussion defend your position with your child.  After all, you are the parent;you have the right to charge.surtout when you're dealing with youth and children as young children. Simply, the children tell their parenbts work to handle the situation so that they travelled. 

  I suggest watching your child calmly and quietly saying noithing another exception, I know."If your child continues to explain why it is troubling, you continue to say:"I know ".If your child says something that poushes your buttons, you can smile and say "" Honey, I loe you too much to say. ""Then you need to walk farther.

It's a great Parenting with love & Logic technique.Si your voice is calm and quiet, your child cannot claim both - there is no wood added to the fire of the arguments for keeping a child combustion.Votre will finally be calm and abandon when things does is its own way.

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Ten reasons not affected or Spank your child

Ten reasons for success or Spank your child by ParentSurvival911 Friday, January 20, 2006 02: 32 PM PST |  Permalink |  Cosmos Jan Hunt shares many of its parenting ideas in this article.  It gives ten reasons to strike are not your children.  read and see what you think.

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Your child said that he accomplished his task and it is not. What do you do?

Your child said that he accomplished his task and it is not. What do you do?

  You have a child tells you that he or she has been a chore and when you check it, you find that it has not been done?  or better yet, you even determine their duties?I have it helps the child you know. 

  I had a 10 year-old who had a laminated the chore chart.All the tasks to do each day were clearly marked on the map so that they might be marked off the coast of all the weekend jours.À wipe off the map and start a new week.  After six weeks, she had not yet one of his tasks was sweeping the patio outside the kitchen.

A normal response would be to give lectures and punish him with a result.If I did, it is just sulk over later in his room, angry at me, instead of watching his own behaviour irresponsable.que could do to get her to reflect on his behaviour? I found something that motivated to wipe out the patio without be recalled .c ' is how the scenario is gone. 

Me: "Emily, you scanned the patio today."

Emily: "no, I forgot (smile)".

Me: "thank you for let me know you're too tired to your your chore."I assume you'll need to go to bed 30 minutes earlier tonight and you'll get enough yet to be able to do the scanning tomorrow.»

Come tomorrow, she forgot to start again the corvée.Je thanked him for letting me know that she still did step to get enough rest and would be going to bed 30 minutes earlier that night previous (1 h) Institute has begun scanning by the third day, and we did not have a problem with it since.

This approach puts units of concern about the child and not the parent.Apprendre to say, "Thanks for let me know..."."It will be you save arguments tiring and frustrating YH ' would like to know how it works for you.

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The seven keys to child obedience

The seven keys of obedience of the child by ParentSurvival911 Tue 10 January 2006 03: 52 PM PST |  Permalink |  Cosmos Anthony Kane, MD has written an article entitled the seven steps for children obedience.  Its easy to read and understand.  I hope you will take the time to read it.

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Teach your child the alphabet in Fun Ways

Teach your child the alphabet in Fun Ways by ParentSurvival911 Sun January 29, 2006 12: 11 PM PST |  Permalink |  Cosmos Sheila Anderson has published an article on the Internet entitled "teaching the alphabet: 8 fun tips to teach your child the alphabet".  I think you will enjoy if you have young children.  It also has a link to its site which provides free printable materials for parents to use inhelping their children learn the alphabet.

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Prepare your child to read

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Teaching Your Child the Alphabet in Fun Ways

Teaching Your Child the Alphabet in Fun Ways by ParentSurvival911 on Sun 29 Jan 2006 12:11 PM PST  |  Permanent Link  |  Cosmos Sheila Anderson published an article on the Internet titled,  "Teach the Alphabet:  8 Fun Tips to Teach Your Child the Alphabet".  I think you'll enjoy it if you have young children.  She also has a link to her site where she offers free printable materials for parents to use inhelping their children learn the alphabet.

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Nurturing Your Child through Touch

The entry posted before this one discusses why touch is imprortant for all children, regardless of age.  here are some ideas to increase touch between parent and child in nurturing ways:

1.  Hold and cuddle your child every day.

2.  Tuck your child in at night with a hug and kiss good night.

3.  Hold hands while walking.

4.  Play a clapping game.

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The seven keys to Child Obedience

The seven keys to Child Obedience by ParentSurvival911 on Tue 10 Jan 2006 03:52 PM PST  |  Permanent Link  |  Cosmos Anthony Kane, MD wrote an article  called The Seven Keys to Child Obedience.  Its easy to read and understand.  I hope you'll take the time to read it.

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Your Child says he's done his chore and he hasn't. What do you do?

Your Child says he's done his chore and he hasn't. What do you do?

Do you have a child who tells you he or she has done a chore and when you check on it, you find it hasn't been done?  or better yet, do you even check their chores?  I would.  It lets the child know you care.

I had a 10 year old who had a laminated chore chart.  All the chores she had to do each day were neatly marked on the chart so they could be marked off daily.  At the end of the week, we'd wipe off the chart and begin a new week.  After six weeks, she still had not done one of her chores which was sweeping the patio outside the kitchen.

A normal response might be to lecture her and punish her with a consequence.  if I did that, she's just sulk away into her room, getting angry at me, instead of looking at her own irresponsible behavior.  what could I do to get her to think about her behavior?  I found something that motivated her to sweep the patio without being reminded.  This is how the scenario went.

Me:       "Emily, have you swept the patio today?"

Emily:    "No, I forgot (smiling)".

Me:       "Thanks for letting me know you're too tired to do your  your chore.  I guess you'll need to go to bed 30 minutes earlier tonight so you'll get enough rest to be able to do the sweeping tomorrow."

When tomorrow came, she forgot to do the chore again.  I thanked her for letting me know she still wasn't getting enough rest and would be going to bed 30  minutes earlier than the night before (1hr).  She began sweeping by the third day and we haven't had a problem with her since.

This approach places the units of concern on the child and not the parent.  Learn to say, "Thanks for letting me know..."  It will you save you from tiresome and frustrating arguments.  let me know how this works for you.           

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When Your Child Says, "It's not fair!"

You've just asked or told your child to do something he doesn't want to do.  he looks at you with angry eyes and says, "Its not fair!"  Or your daughter wants to do something and you won't let her do it.  She gets huffy and says in a loud voice, "That's not fair!"

How do you respond?  CALMLY.

You do NOT want to get into an argument or discussion defending your position to your child.  After all, you ARE the parent; you have a right to be in charge; especially when you're dealing with young children and those acting like young children.  Children who say this to their parenbts are merely working at manipulating the situation so they get their way.

I suggest looking at your child calmly and quietly saying noithing else except, "I know."  If your child continues to explain why this is upsetting, you continue saying, "I know."  If your child says something that poushes your buttons, you can smile and say, "Honey, I loe you too much to argue."  Then you should walk away.

This is a great Parenting with Love & Logic technique.  If your voice is calm and quiet, your child can't argue as much--there's no wood being added to the fire of arguments to keep things burning.  Your child will eventually calm down and give up when things don't go his or her way.

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Preparing Your Child to Read

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